When
someone gets a new job, we clink glasses. When we get a raise, we raise a glass, and
toast. For New Year’s Eve, we raise several glasses and “ring” in the New Year.
We
assign an important status to toasting, be it humorous words or thoughtful
messages, just ask any best man who’s had to give the official wedding toast,
or the office mate, put on the spot for a toast at the retirement party.
Toasting
is a custom that is centuries old. A ritual where we generally express goodwill
and best wishes for positive things to happen to the guest of honor, or to
celebrate special events and holidays. Toasts can be somber, romantic,
affectionate, funny, bawdy, even rude.
Drinking
to “one’s health” began in ancient Greece as a way to make sure you were not
being poisoned. Simply slipping a bit of poison into a drink was an easy way to
be rid of an enemy, with no one the wiser.
With
this in mind, it soon became expected for the host to pour the wine into a
decanter and take the first drink. If he survived, you could drink “to your
health.”
But what if the poison was in your cup? Soon revelers were spilling wine into each other’s cups as a way to make sure everyone was imbibing with the same wine. This evolved into the clinking of glasses when a toast is made; a symbolic sharing of the wine and good wishes – to every one’s health.
Another idea is that we began clinking glasses as a way of scaring off evil spirits, possibly those same demons that caused drunkenness…
There
is also a theory that we clink glasses as a way of fulfilling the fifth sense –
hearing – since seeing, smelling, touching, and tasting are already covered in the wine drinking experience.
Yet another premise is that after the communal cup had gone by the wayside, we touched glasses to express that we were still connected and sharing this experience together.
The
Romans put a twist on the practice by adding a piece of spiced bread (toast) to
the wine cup as a means of soaking up unwanted flavors and smells while adding a spicy flavor.
In
16th Century England, drinking a “toast” meant you were drinking to
good health with a wine that literally had spiced toast in it. This tradition continued through the 17th
and 18th centuries when it became chic to drink a toast to someone’s
health, wealth, or beauty.
Even
today, there are rules regarding toasting.
Toasting
Etiquette:
•
Everyone should have a glass as the toast is given
•
Holding your glass but not drinking at least a sip from it is ill mannered
•
To refuse a glass or put your glass down before the toast is finished is
considered to be rude
•
Inverting your glass is very discourteous to the guest of honor
•
Tapping a glass with silverware to get attention is considered uncouth
And there are rules for the guest of honor such as never drink after being toasted. Instead he or she should stand, nod to the group, and offer their thanks.
But
remember to clink your glass with someone else’s after a toast. Not only does
it produce a pleasing sound, it creates a physical connection between members
of the group, and their shared good wishes. If you are in too large of a group
to touch glasses with everyone, simply make eye contact and you have created
that connection.
Most
Famous Toasts
There
are so many well-known toasts, but most everyday toasts are spur of the moment
well wishes to commemorate a special moment. Just remember to keep them
simple, sincere, and succinct.
If
you find yourself in need of a few words – Here are some suggestions:
"May friendships, like wine,
improve, as time advances.
And
may we always have old wine, old friends, and young cares.”
"May
neighbors respect you,
Trouble neglect you,
The angels protect you,
And heaven accept you."
Trouble neglect you,
The angels protect you,
And heaven accept you."
"May
you live as long as you like,
And have all you like as long as you live."
And have all you like as long as you live."
An
Irish Blessing
May the road rise to meet
you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face.
And rains fall soft upon your fields.
And may ye be in heaven a half-hour
Afore the devil knows ye're dead!
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face.
And rains fall soft upon your fields.
And may ye be in heaven a half-hour
Afore the devil knows ye're dead!
So up
with your glass,
Down with the wine.”
Down with the wine.”
~
Joy